1.) My contraband candy 2.) Don't you love the ugly carpet in movie theaters?
Grace Kelly is so beautiful. I think this is a scene from one of my favorite movies, "To Catch a Thief".
I planned to take myself out on Tuesday afternoon after my internship, but the weather in Dallas turned crazy. We had several tornados touch down in the area and it was pretty scary for a few hours. Sirens wailing and sideways rain is not my idea of a good date. I was so ready to be all confident that day and I honestly felt a little discouraged when I couldn't go do it. I wouldn't let the weather defeat my spirit though!
After class yesterday afternoon, I regrouped and decided to finally go see The Hunger Games. I read all of the books over Christmas break and was completely hooked. So, I got dressed up, snuck a box of Dots in my bag (movie snacks are so expensive!) and made my way to the theater. I stuck with my iPhone camera because I wasn't feeling that confident to tote the big one. I went in the afternoon so I knew it would be quiet with less cute couples and judgmental teenagers sitting around me. When I stepped into the theater, I saw a a few older men who clearly came alone too and probably didn't want other people to know they were seeing The Hunger Games. Haha! Awesome. My company was very interesting. Anyway, I found a seat, propped up my feet, opened up my Dots and got ready for the movie. From then on I didn't feel weird at all. I definitely understand the appeal of going to the movies alone. It's fun and extremely calming. It was nice to get away from stress and obligations, turn off my phone, and enjoy a movie.
The worst part of the experience was the few rude comments I got on Instagram for taking myself on a date. I try to ignore the spam and occasional offensive remarks that come with Instagram, but when little girls feel the need to type "forever alone" on my picture...that kind of hurts. I don't understand why people feel the need to judge others so harshly. I wanted to take myself out just for fun and see if I could confidently handle it. And I did.
So I think it was pretty great, no matter what anyone else thinks.
I'm sorry for the heartless comments, people seem to say such mean things online. I think it is awesome that you took yourself on a date!
ReplyDeleteLove your outfit and that you pushed yourself to try something new! :)
xx, C
That is so mean! I can't believe people can be so rude! Especially when you are trying to gain confidence from this! Erggg, this makes me so mad. Anyways, you look adorable and I think you are absolutely lovely. Don't listen to the haters.
ReplyDeletei went and saw the hunger games by myself, too! there's absolutely nothing wrong with treating yourself to a date. :)
ReplyDeletei honestly do not remember the last time i saw a movie WITH someone. I go to the movies a lot by myself and I like it!! I live in boston the summer after freshman year instead of going home and none of my friends were around and so i got used to doing things by myself... i went to yoga, i went to the movies, i went out for dinner... like, to a restaurant and sat alone lol - it's not as uncommon as people think! It's nice to just be me myself and I sometimes! its brave though!
ReplyDeleteThe people who left rude comments were just jealous because they would never have the confidence to go out on a date on their own ;) Ignore the haters, you look adorable and you've accomplished something for yourself - that's what really matters :)
ReplyDeleteYeah! I'm so glad you took this challenge that you gave yourself. I actually love going to the movies by myself. Exactly what you said, it is very relaxing and I feel like I get sucked into the movie more than normal. You should definitely be proud of yourself for doing it!
ReplyDeletePoo to the horrible people on IG :( I know this probably sounds really soppy, but the friends I have made through blogging, knitting and twitter make me feel like I'm never alone. And congrats for taking yourself out :)
ReplyDeleteThat doesn't sound sappy at all! I feel the exact same way. :)
DeleteAw! Why would people be so mean on Instagram!? I just don't understand it. Going on dates alone is so much fun! Even if I *had* a bf, I would still do it. :-P Although I have to admit, I've never seen a movie by myself before... well, yet. I'm seriously tempted to see the Avengers at midnight and if I do I'll probably have to go alone. Lol! I'm such a superhero nerd when it comes the Avengers!
ReplyDeleteoh, don't worry dear about the naysayers. eating out by yourself or going to the movies is one of my favorite (but nerve wracking) self challenges. feel good about what you did for YOU!
ReplyDeleteYou're adorable, and it breaks my heart to think there are mean girls out there saying such hurtful things. People seem to forget to be nice human beings on the internet.
ReplyDeleteI think it's amazing that you took yourself on a date, Meredith! I've never understood why people are so judgmental of those who are at the movies alone. I actually quite like it. (Especially when I'm seeing a tearjerker and want to bawl my face off without someone teasing me about it. :]) Sure, it's fun to be able to go with someone else, but for goodness sake, you're there to see a movie...who honestly cares if you're by yourself?
ReplyDeleteAs for the rude comments, that just shows you how immature people can be. I don't see how you going to the movie by yourself means you'll be 'forever alone'. That's ridiculous.
More power to you, Meredith!
Happy Thursday!
xo, Allie
People were rude about it?! Oh my gosh! Who cares! I'm so glad you had such a good time. Smart going in the day time because I bet the theater was less crowded with obnoxious movie-talkers! And way to sneak that candy in! Only way to go, really.
ReplyDeleteJeesh. If there's one thing I've learned being surrounded by teenage girls, it's that if they're going to be mean, they are usually too terrified to do it unless they have a computer or phone in front of them. And then they're a badass. Just ignore it. I love that you took yourself out!! I'm married and have our third baby on the way, and you're making me want to schedule a date with myself! It looks so fun, relaxing, and confidence boosting!!
ReplyDeleteSo proud of you!
ReplyDeleteIgnore anyone pathetic enough to make rude comments. I think that's the cutest idea, and if you had fun, then it worked! You're a beautiful person anyway. :] As some of the other commenters said, now I want to take myself on a date... What makes anyone feel better than looking nice and doing something fun?
ReplyDeleteI think it's pretty darn awesome that you took yourself on a date! And there is nothing wrong with that. Everyone should do it every once in a while!
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Meredith, I think you are being very brave for going by yourself AND THEN blogging about it! Definitely ignore those crazies who are just jealous that they don't have the self confidence to do things alone, I mean they are using social media to hide their identites and bash others. I have been really enjoying your blogging for confidence posts and am going to try and do the movie thing too! I've been wanting to see Hunger Games so badly :) p.s. love that you really dressed up for this challenge too!
ReplyDeleteTasia :)
Don't worry about the stupid comments. What kind of life do these people have when they're reduced to criticizing others online?
ReplyDeleteI think it's great that you went! I was excited to see how this would turn out.
Did you enjoy the movie?
Congrats, a big step for you!
I did enjoy the movie! I cried a little bit too...
DeleteI really want to see it again! :)
The problem with social media apps is that strangers get to comment on some of the most intimate moments of our lives. But the truth is, what you're doing is completely normal and awesome! I'm only recently in a relationship (my first ever, and at the age of 24!), but before that, I loved having MY time to decide what I wanted to do without having to consult anyone else. Taking yourself to the movies, out to dinner, or on an impromptu walk to the library to spend hours reading and sipping coffee: these are the times in your life you should be cherishing and getting to know yourself! Enjoy them; I know I did! ;) Then one day when you meet someone, you'll have all of those wonderful memories and experiences that will make you that much more loveable and awesome.
ReplyDeleteComing from someone who labeled myself "shy" most of my life, I think you are more courageous and confident than you give yourself credit for.
xo,
Mel
Even if you're in a relationship I still don't see the big deal about going to the cinema or somewhere else on your own. It doesn't mean your lonely, it's just nice to have a bit of "me" time! :) xxx
ReplyDeleteYou are just too cute, and brave! You make me want to see a movie by myself.
ReplyDeleteSome people are lame, but you are not one of them! I've been reading your blog for a while and think that you are super talented and fabulous! I too enjoy going to the movies alone... sometimes it's more fun than going with friends! Super relaxing. Anyway, keep doing things that make you happy!
ReplyDeleteYay!!!! Good for you! And, pff, people with nothing better to do than make mean comments to strangers are in no position to judge! I'm off to find you on Instagram now - I just joined yesterday and I'm still finding the whole thing exciting.
ReplyDeleteI'm so surprised and upset that people would leave mean comments on your Instagram! You are one of the sweetest bloggers I know. They must just be the pests that crawl out from the woodwork whenever someone earns a large following. Anyway, I am a big fan of going to movies (and eating out... and wandering around...) by myself. Being an introvert, as I am, means you are always with your best friend :-).
ReplyDeleteI find that when people make negative comments, like the ones directed at you, they themselves are struggling with their own insecurities. The most important thing to remember is that you are brave for stepping up and out on your own. I believe the journey of life is about find the inspiration in ourselves and promoting it in others...and you've inspired me by your actions!
ReplyDeleteYou go! That's great...I still haven't had the confidence to take myself out for a movie, but would love to sometime. Plenty of people do it;) And you know those young girls will grow to be women one day (hopefully) who will understand what the world is actually about.
ReplyDeleteWell that's brave of them... making negative comments from behind a computer. I'd like to see them take themselves on a date! You are a million times braver and more awesome than they could ever be, my dear. Glad you enjoyed your date :) x
ReplyDeleteI think that bringing yourself on a date to the movies is perfect! I'm actually going to try this soon :)
ReplyDeleteWow! I didn't know you got meanies on istagram! That's so mean. I love this idea! Means you never have to worry about trying to find someone to come to the movies with you. I went to a Panic at the disco gig alone last year, and while I was dreading it before hand, it was actuall better alone cause i could just dance like a moron and be where I wanted to be in the crowd. Amazing! Well done :)
ReplyDeleteI think it's wonderful what you did, please ignore those silly girls. We know better and rise above them in many many ways. You rock :)!
ReplyDeleteGoing to movies alone means you'll forever be alone? No way, girl! I love going to movies by myself and I ALWAYS take myself on a date to a craft store on Valentine's day whether I'm with somebody or not. Those mean people don't know what's up.
ReplyDeleteAs I was reading your post, I thought, "I'm totally taking myself to a movie this Saturday afternoon." Thanks for reminding me how much I love to do that!
I LOVE doing things by myself...Im married (and love him madly), and still love to go shopping, eating, or movie watching alone..there is something so freeing about doing things alone..the best part about going to the movies alone is when you go see a chick flick, I can laugh as loud as I want or eat whatever I want, and not have to beg/DRAAAAGGGGG my husband to see the chick flick..haha
ReplyDeleteIt definitely doesn't matter what silly teen girls say. They are way too self-conscious at this point in their lives - they don't really understand being confident in your own self yet! I think you've totally grasped the idea of your "Blogging for Confidence" series - proved by the fact that you didn't care about the negative comments! Glad you enjoyed your date. :) Makes me want to go on one with myself now soon too!
ReplyDeleteGood for you!! I'm definitely going to try going on a date with myself (I have a feeling I will be great company :D) And haters be hating...they probably lack the personal confidence to do so themselves. Nevermind.
ReplyDeletePriya
Sunshine Over The Mountains
Hi Meredith,
ReplyDeleteI've been following your blog for a while, but this is the first time I comment on one of your posts. Just wanted to give you thumbs up for treating yourself to a date.
I recently moved to another country without knowing anyone but my boyfriend (who works full time) so I have a lot of solo time, and the more I do things by myself the more I seem to enjoy my own little adventures. So keep up the good work!
Hi Mona! Thanks for reading!
DeleteI can only imagine what moving to another country is like. Thank you so much for the support!
Good for you, I'm glad you had a great time.
ReplyDeleteAnd stupid people are everywhere, it's best to ingnore them, they're the ones that will end up alone because nobody likes them.
And you looked very pretty on your date
I think you are the coolest person for taking yourself to the movies! It shows the ownership you have over your life, and that you are a bold, confident woman. I am envious of your movie date. :)
ReplyDeleteFirst, You are awesome for doing this!
ReplyDeleteI remember one year in the summer time I was having a very off day and I just wanted to be alone. I was stuck at home then, so I lied and said I was going to hang out with friends at the movies. Instead I went to the movies alone. (I saw Wall-e) It's weird because when you go somewhere alone, you notice that there are others there that are also alone. Anyways after the movie I felt a lot better. And it wasn't a big deal to me. I actually really liked it.
Second you are awesome again, for even bringing up the whole Instagram thingy. Ignore those silly girls. They have their own problems and are too immature to figure it out. They'll probably be the lonely ones in the long run if thats how the treat people. :/
I think it's such a treat to take yourself out. Those are some of my favorite moments, sitting in my favorite cafe and eating a big cookie all by myself. Don't listen to what anyone says! Wasn't the Hunger Games a fun movie? Perfect date night, I'd say. Also Daisy is my favorite perfume, so lovely for spring!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! That's so terrible! Yeah, DEFINITELY ignore those weird Instagram messages. You have to wonder how these people haven't picked up tact and consideration along the way...
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy that you had such a great time. Like, so so so happy. You deserve it!
People, especially younger ones, have a tendency to not view the internet world as having actual people behind the screens. They feel that the anonymity gives them the right to be mean and hateful, which in turn makes them feel big and powerful. It's a sad and vicious circle.
ReplyDeleteYou are a strong, beautiful, intelligent and talent young lady. Never let anyone tell you differently. Head up, shoulders back and face the world because no one can make you feel inferior unless you let them. You know that their remarks mean nothing and are not true so don't give them any weight. Keep doing what you're doing - it looks great on you.
There is never anything wrong with treating yourself to something nice be it an event, movie, item, etc. It's a form of self care that I think so many people undervalue so don't let a few negative people let you down. They are probably only being negative because they lack the confidence to go it alone which you clearly have! :)
ReplyDeleteHey,
ReplyDeleteloved this post! btw, I LOVE going to the movies alone. I did it when I went to grad school in Oklahoma... I moved there all alone and a few times I took myself out to see a movie. I also took myself out to see a movie when I moved back to phoenix (that was only one time though unfortunately)... I got so much grief from my friends and family about it---they kept asking if I was depressed or something?
But you summed it up, it is EXTREMELY CALMING to go to the movies alone... It almost feels liberating in a weird way? Something that you always do with other people, you finally do alone, and it feels so refreshing... You have inspired me to plan an afternoon at the movies alone!
so thank you!!!
Your little date looks wonderful. I know that I am in the minority, but I love spending time alone and almost always find that when I take the plunge to do something that I feel like was "scary alone" not "nice alone" I'm always pleased after.
ReplyDeleteNow I can't wait until you do your yarn bombing!
People actually spend time writing things like that on other people's photos? I shouldn't be surprised but I still am. So proud of you for ignoring the chatter, it's really hard sometimes but you're doing a great job!
ReplyDeleteOh good grief, why would someone leave that type of comment?
ReplyDeleteThat's a totally cute self-date outfit, and the Hunger Games is a perfect movie to get absorbed in. :) I totally agree with other commenters: your experience makes me want to take myself to a movie - it always feels like another world when I'm by myself in a way that friends or my partner can interfere with (much as I like hanging with those people as well).
You are so cool. Ignore anyone else... :)
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I teach high school, so I'm constantly around kids and the stuff they say. When something like this comes out of their mouths, I tell them straight up that they have no idea what they are talking about and that it's time for them to shut it. They don't usually say things like that around me after that.
ReplyDeleteThe Hunger Games was amazing and so are you, for being confident!
ReplyDeleteYay! I love that you did this! I think I'm going to take myself on a date too!
ReplyDeleteOh, man -I really want a self-date right about now. There are a lot of wonderful things that come with a long term relationship, but there are also a lot of things that you lose forever. I never, ever have a moment to myself. I should be used to it as I grew up in a big family. But sometimes the idea of a self-date is the most blissful thing imaginable.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand mean people. It looks like a lot of fun :)
ReplyDeleteWhen my husband was gone for 10 weeks on an internship during my student teaching I learned to do stuff like this and it really wasn't bad! I kind of enjoyed it a little bit.
I'm married with a kid and getting to take myself out for an afternoon movie date all alone is one of my favorite things to do! I actually just took myself on a date to see The Hunger Games today, in fact. I find it a nice little escape and a chance to treat myself a little. I am so glad that you gave yourself the challenge! Don't worry about those rude comments you got--they're really nothing to do with you and all that matters is that you enjoyed yourself while you were out and about. I hope that if you liked it you'll continue to take yourself out to the movies every once in a while!
ReplyDeleteNo doubt it was great, self-dates are awesome! I'm nearly married and I still take myself on self-dates. I just ate Thai alone yesterday and wasn't going to let being alone stop me from seeking about guacamole at a Mexican joint last week. There's a lot to be said for having time alone, plenty of time for day dreaming and self indulgence. I'm quite a fan and quite proud of you for living it up at the theatre! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm inspired by your self-date, Meredith! As a single girl myself, I know it takes a lot of confidence to do that. I'm glad you had fun- and you've certainly inspired me to try it! Going to a matinee sounds like a great way to start!
ReplyDelete...(and may I also just say that it certainly does NOT take a lot of confidence to write ridiculous comments on Instagram. Indeed, it's certainly easy to say hurtful things when you're anonymously behind a computer screen)
I'm so glad you went along with this. It's so much more fun than watching Netflix on your bed, don't you think?
ReplyDeleteSheesh, people under a certain (mental) age should just be banned from communicating.
I've been trying to take myself to the movies for years, I haven't made it yet. But, I'm going to try again. My mom goes to the movies by herself all the time and she talks about how fun it is.
ReplyDeleteI find that rude people are usually miserable and trying to find people to join them in their pity party. Ignore them, they aren't worth the time.
Daydreams & Destinies
You took yourself out on a date?! I can't believe I never thought of that before. I desperately need to have a self-date and soon. Thank you kindly for sharing this and your pics :)
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You look adorable! I'm so glad you had fun on your date. You're awesome!
ReplyDeleteHow bizarre that people feel the need to be anonymously negative towards others, it says so much more about them and their state of mind then anything else!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, another confidence target achieved. I too love going to the flicks when I'm away somewhere on my own - it's generally LOADS cheaper then the cinema here in London so I snap up the opportunity! Plus no judgement when I want to see something dubious and girly - bonus!
What are Dots? Like Jelly sweets?
Thanks so much!
DeleteYes, Dots are like gumdrops except they don't have sugar on the outside.
Self dates are so relaxing! I took myself out to see Get Low at the Angelika almost 2 summers ago, and it was awesome. Don't worry about those insignificant people who commented so rudely. They have insecurities and probably have never done anything worthwhile in their lives.
ReplyDeleteGlad you have tackled one of your challenges now use that momentum to do your second challenge. Remember being alone does not equate to being lonely. Onwards and upwards!
ReplyDeletecoming from someone who was pretty much in your exact situation a few years ago(except you seem to be handling it way better), listen to the positive comments and laugh at the bad. 2 years out of college i have had WAY better luck with dating and find humor in the days when i was pegged the spinster-math-major-cat-lady.
ReplyDeleteThis looks like a lot of fun, I love your outfit! Would love to hear your thoughts on how the film compared to the book. Oh, and I wouldn't worry about those rude commenters, there are weirdos everywhere.
ReplyDeleteI thought the movie was a really great interpretation of the book. Of course they left out and changed a few things, but overall it was amazing!
DeleteIt takes strength of character to deliberately choose to spend time alone doing something that most people avoid doing alone. Good for you - I've always wanted to go to the movies by myself and haven't felt brave enough.
ReplyDeleteI just took myself to lunch today at a restraunt and I'm married with a kid! People especially teenage girls can be so ridiculous. So good for you! I'm actually jealous, I wish I had time to go the movies by myself!!!
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Meredith! I'm finally going to see it this weekend. I've read all the books & have been a little nervous to see the movie. I hope you enjoyed it. Sorry to hear about the rude comments! Don't think twice about them. You are brave, beautiful, & inspirational! Don't forget that :)
ReplyDeleteYou will not be forever alone. I really dislike people who use the internet for evil. You look adorable, and I'm glad you were able to make time for yourself. And you should never feel bad for doing something fun.
ReplyDeleteI hope you make this a tradition. :D
What a fun idea - and way to go Meredith! And boo to the negative comments about your pictures, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. :( I mean, if they stopped and thought about what they're saying - its ok to put needlessly rude remarks on other people's lives, but it's not ok to take yourself to the movies? Bah! Anyway, glad you had fun and kudos to you. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you had a good time, and so sorry about those negative comments!!
ReplyDeleteYeah a date with yourself - going to the movies by yourself
ReplyDeleteIs the best you don't have to share the popcorn can get the greasy stuff and see whatever strikes your fancy
Ignore the little negative beggars -they are jealous of your independence
Darling outfit
i think you're adorable and love the fact that you are pushing yourself to new limits! don't let mean people get you down! i wish i had your maturity in my early twenties!
ReplyDeleteI didn't comment on your other post, but I wanted to say I am so glad you took a chance on taking yourself out on a date! Going to a movie alone is such a great experience, there is really something to be said about taking in the ideas and feelings from a great film without having to worry about what a companion might think. >Ahem, me crying at the Hunger Games!< And I love that top!
ReplyDeleteAnd to those who leave you rude comments - really!? Please try to let it roll off your back, and remember that for every one of them, there are 5 of us who are cheering for you via the internet!
that's awesome that you did something that challenged you and i am glad you had fun. i love sneaking snacks into the movie theater. they're so pricey there and they often don't have what i like anyway. i do love movie popcorn though. ignore those haters. even if they don't like going out by themselves there is no reason to be mean to you. not cool. glad you liked hunger games, too. great book and good movie as well. happy weekend!
ReplyDeletePeople can be so rude, just ignore them!
ReplyDeleteGoing on a date with yourself, I need to do that and get more self-confidance. Looks like you had a great time!
I can't believe people would say that. Going to a movie really isn't such a big deal! I'm glad you did it and enjoyed it :)
ReplyDeleteYou did great :) I really admire your will to pull this through. Ignore all the silly comments, as people on the internet can be so disgustingly awful because they are anonymous. As I am a mum of two nosy and clingy kids I sometimes wish I could go somewhere on my own for a change ;)...although I enjoy their company a lot of course! Have a few really nice "Easter days"!
ReplyDeleteYou are so awesome! I love your style and I really admire your rad knitting skills. You inspire me with your "Blogging for Confidence" posts, they are truly brilliant. Don't let the ignorant comments bring you down- I think that taking yourself out on a date is really fun and a great idea. :)
ReplyDeletei love this, i think i want to do it too!
ReplyDeleteYou remind me of the cowardly lion from The Wizard of Oz... you believe you are shy but from what I can tell you have more confidence than most people! Keep it up!
ReplyDeleteDo not worry about the mean and rude people; they seem to exist to only destroy the happiness of others, and for that they will never truly know joy. I think it's lovely that you took yourself out :) I would love to do that....granted, I am engaged, but I would still be too nervous to take myself out by myself!
ReplyDeleteWhat horrible, ugly, AWFUL people to say that to you! Ignore those jealous horrid people. You are flippin awesome and and talented and super cute and adorable and a bagillion other wonderful and admirable things! Im so proud of you for treating yourself and going to see the movie. I have yet to see it, but I think i'll take a cue from you and treat myself:) Hope you enjoy this weekend! <3
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about those comments. Don't let them get to you. It's pretty awesome, and I wish I could get myself to see a movie alone as well :) Maybe now I might. If YOU enjoyed the day, then everything was as it should have been :)
ReplyDeleteIt's interesting to me how viscerally people react to other people being OK with being alone. Your post reminded me of a critique I had in a graduate design program where I presented the concept of a book about traveling alone. The co-chair of my department reamed me, not for the design of the book, but the concept of traveling alone. He thought it was utterly depressing, not something to be celebrated. His reaction was emotionally negative, and it surprised me with its force.
ReplyDeleteI used to be jealous of people who were comfortable being by themselves, until I was alone enough to be comfortable with it and appreciate the freedom it affords. And that comes through experiences like your date.
So those people's negative comments are really not about you at all. It's about their own extreme discomfort with the mere idea of being alone.
Idiots that feel the need to make rude comment are clearly struggling with their own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. They clearly have no idea how inspiring you are to your readers. They don't deserve any of your time. It's absolutely disgusting behaviour. I'm glad you enjoyed your date! Generally, I PREFER going to the cinema alone. It's easier to focus on the film, no?! The last time I went to the cinema with a friend they kept muttering about how much they disliked the film! So company isn't always a plus ;) Gwyneth xo
ReplyDeletePeople's rude comments only stem from their issues, their shortcomings, it has nothing to do with you ;) Sorry that happened! I think it's admirable to go to the movies or out to eat alone!!! It's good for the soul...
ReplyDeleteYou go girl! :)
ReplyDeleteSorry that some people just don't get it! Personally I admire you for taking yourself on a date.
ReplyDeleteOut of the few activities that are typically thought of as group or date things, going to the movies is the only one that I can enjoy doing alone some times. There have been a few times that I had the entire theater to myself, which was fun. I felt a bit like Goldilocks, testing out quite a few seats until I found the right one. Plus it was nice to be able to laugh/cry at the movie & not feel silly about it.
woohoo, yippee skippee I am so proud of you. i am glad you had fun. i am sorry there are mean people out there...lets not give them any power......ignore them and focus on your accomplishments. you did it and it wasn't so bad after all ! now make a date once a week to have fun by yourself.
ReplyDeleteThat's awesome and great that you went! :) Having alone time really helps you relax and unwind, I think. Especially at the movies!
ReplyDeleteAnd argh, people like that are silly. I've come to find that people like that will make fun of others to bring them down. They're insecure and hating that you're so confident about what you accomplished? Hateful comments are the supposed answer. I don't get it. Good for you and your date! :)
So awesome - it looks like it was fun! I like the idea of going to the movies alone - and you have totally inspired me to do it. I like to go snowboarding alone because there isn't a lot of time to be social anyway. A movie is kind of like that, perfect for a self date :)
ReplyDeleteHaters going to hate. I think ugly comments just add a bit to your challenge. People will say mean things and even though they hurt you still had fun and did your own thing (and then blogged about it). That is true confidence!!
I love that you have the confidence to go on your own! I am going to try and go to the cinema by myself one time, and you doing it has definately boosted my confidence!
ReplyDeleteIgnore the silly people who haven't got the confidence like you. They're plain ignorant :)
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boy, if there's one thing i hate in this world it's spoiled teenagers with iphones that feel it's necessary to comment rudely on things they don't understand.
ReplyDeletei love going to the movies alone. it's actually a really great time. you do you and don't worry about what people born in the late 90's have to say about you. you rule!
meredith i am personally going to track those people down and administer an ass whooping. you are a charming lovely young woman and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. i go to movies ALL THE TIME alone. it's my preferred way. no talking and no being talked to. trust me when i say NO ONE cares. not a single other person in that theatre is even noticing that you are alone. you're still a kitten so you don't know that yet. but when you become a full grown cat (like me!) you will understand.
ReplyDeletelove your sweet blog!
Good for you and your solo date! If I could go to the theater I'd take a note from you and try it out (movie theaters give me motion sickness). And I agree with the other commenters! People can be awful - just stick to your gut and know that if those people want to be rude then they certainly aren't worth your time!
ReplyDeleteDOTS ARE THE BEST! For the longest time, they were hard to find in Canada, and we wold have to cross to Michigan to get them. They're pretty plentiful now.
ReplyDeleteAs for the forever alone, just remind yourself that you are awesome and that you don't need to be hooked up with someone to know that.
-Nicole
Knit, Nicole, Knit!
Wow, good for you! :)
ReplyDeleteI recently broke up, and some thinks like going to the movies alone is something I just can't complete. But I guess isn't that bad, thanks for shearing your experience! I'll take this as an example to build up my confidence too.
Thanks!
I love going to the movies alone! It started after I graduated from college and moved back to my hometown. I knew hardly anyone there anymore, the stress of looking for jobs was really bringing me down, and it was so hot outside. One of the few things I could afford to do was go to a matinee. I could escape for a few hours, sit in the cool, dark air, and just enjoy myself. I also went to see The Hunger Games by myself last week, I totally loved it!
ReplyDeleteYikes! I can't believe we live in a world where people would put you down for enjoying your life. I am an extrovert in the sense that I am completely ok with hanging out sans companions. As a nurse, I need entire days to myself sometimes to regroup. I go to the movies, eat meals at favorite restaurants, go to museums and arboretums, and more. I consider it an investment in my mental health. No one is asking me for things, no one is dying, I don't have to keep up a conversation. I think you're doing a great thing even though it's new. I'm rooting for you.
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I think you looked lovely and you did a wonderful thing stepping outside your comfort zone. People are crazy when they feel they need to drag others down. I've always been a bit of a loner, so much so that even if I had someone I could take on a date to the movies, I would often go on my own. One of my favorite things was ending up in a screening room all by myself during they day. It's like it was my movie just for me! BTW: My five year-old daughter saw the picture of the Dots and couldn't get over it. She loves those things. :)
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, really?? Why would somebody say that? So rude!
ReplyDeleteAnyway… I was just going to say that going to the movies alone is one of my all-time favorite pasttimes. I do have friends, but I'm a major introvert and get frurstrated at my extrovert friend's tendencies to whisper and talk during a movie. It's one thing if we're at home and have already seen the movie, but in a theater I just love emersing myself into the ambiance, which is hard to do when your friends are checking for your reaction &/or telling you theirs every five minutes. Lol. I hope you continue to do this because I think it really makes movie viewing much more special.
Those people who put 'forever alone' on your instagram pics are stupid and shallow. You will not be forever alone. Also, being with the wrong person is much much worse than being alone, and many of those who leave the nasty comments
ReplyDeletewill likely find themselves in horrible relationships and quite miserable. Then who will be so smug--'he who laughs last laughs hardest'.
What?? People actually type comments like that on random people's instagram pics? How rude! I think they may be worried that they'll end up forever alone to have that thought even cross their mind. Ugh! Anyhoo - it sounds like your movie date was lovely! :) I'm going to channel some of your confidence for the next time I want to see a movie that mister husband doesn't...or I have a free afternoon. :) Yay!
ReplyDeletegood for you chica! :) people who are rude like that are just insecure themselves. don't worry about it. and, your top with the polka dots is so lovely. :)
ReplyDeleteI go to the movies alone all the time. I think it's pathetic that some people are so insecure they not only couldn't do that themselves but they feel the need to make fun of someone who can! Good on you and I hope you make it a tradition.
ReplyDeleteSuper late to this post (I just found your blog and am loving it!), but I had to comment on this. I took myself on a date to see The Hunger Games, too and it was quite nice. I've been to the movies by myself a few times and, yes, it is always awkward and a bit embarrassing, but once inside the theater you can forget all about that and just enjoy a good movie and some good snacks. Kudos to you for venturing out of your comfort zone and not letting those silly people your time. From one sheepish girl to another, xoxo
ReplyDeleteIt seems very strange to me that people would make rude comments! I always admire people with the confidence to do things on their own. Being open to taking yourself on dates and not needing to wait on friends' budgets, schedules, etc means you can really do whatever you want! No matter what the situation, you can see your favorite band, a performance of a symphony, go read on the beach, whatever you want.
ReplyDeleteThere's a quiet confidence in being able to take yourself out on dates. Good for you!
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